Saturday, June 01, 2019
Wednesday, May 29, 2019
A Mississippi Poem for All Ages
Meet My Mississippi by Patricia Neely-Dorsey
My rating: 5 of 5 stars
MEET MY MISSISSIPPI is a clever book by a talented poet, Patricia Neely-Dorsey, and an amazing water colorist, Brenda Ragsdale. It’s a well-written poem for readers of all ages. The youngest can enjoy the bright, clear illustrations as adults read and discuss it. School children can learn Mississippi history and geography by studying lessons based on each page. It has a trivia section, which can be used for lesson plans. The lovely cover will grace coffee tables throughout Mississippi. Those who live in Mississippi or who have called the state home will pick it up and read the book, which rouses nostalgia and stirs curiosity about Mississippi facts. It can serve as a vacation planner, showing great places in Mississippi to visit. It’s the perfect unique gift.
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My rating: 5 of 5 stars
MEET MY MISSISSIPPI is a clever book by a talented poet, Patricia Neely-Dorsey, and an amazing water colorist, Brenda Ragsdale. It’s a well-written poem for readers of all ages. The youngest can enjoy the bright, clear illustrations as adults read and discuss it. School children can learn Mississippi history and geography by studying lessons based on each page. It has a trivia section, which can be used for lesson plans. The lovely cover will grace coffee tables throughout Mississippi. Those who live in Mississippi or who have called the state home will pick it up and read the book, which rouses nostalgia and stirs curiosity about Mississippi facts. It can serve as a vacation planner, showing great places in Mississippi to visit. It’s the perfect unique gift.
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Friday, May 17, 2019
Interview in The Slatonite
Thanks to Ron Cox, columnist, for the interview recorded in The Slatonite on May 16, 2019.
Here’s a quote:
“Deep from the Heart” tells the story of Ava Molino, a young Methodist minister. She moves from Mississippi to West Texas to help a struggling small town church.
Ava befriends members of the local Hispanic community and brings them into he church. Some of the older members of the church have a problem with this. A sinister character causes Ava discomfort. She falls in love….
Her books show a special sympathy for less fortunate people who struggle through life. Mary is a good writer. You would enjoy her stories.
Here’s a quote:
“Deep from the Heart” tells the story of Ava Molino, a young Methodist minister. She moves from Mississippi to West Texas to help a struggling small town church.
Ava befriends members of the local Hispanic community and brings them into he church. Some of the older members of the church have a problem with this. A sinister character causes Ava discomfort. She falls in love….
Her books show a special sympathy for less fortunate people who struggle through life. Mary is a good writer. You would enjoy her stories.
Tuesday, May 14, 2019
The Power to Upset Me
“You
have my solemn promise. I won’t do or say anything to embarrass you at the
party.” But could I keep my promise?
“We
live in Roswell,” the woman said.
“My
daughter invited us to go to Roswell with her this weekend, but we already had
plans to come here. We’ve been looking forward to this party.”
She
blinked at me.
Unsure
what I’d said wrong but having the distinct feeling that I had inserted un pied dans la bouche, i. e. committed a faux pas, I jabbered on. “We went to
the Roswell museum last summer. Interesting but not quite what I expected.”
“What
museum?” She looked at me askance.
“In
Roswell.” So, in the restroom I googled Roswell. It’s in South Dakota, New
York, Georgia, and New Mexico. Did I miss one?
Generally
I did pretty well, though. I remembered to stand tall, and most of the time I
sat with my legs together. I didn’t say, “Are you a Democrat or Republican?” There
were two women though who looked almost alike, and they wore similar dresses. I
messed up talking to them. Otherwise, I did pretty well.
Maybe
my clothes were wrong. I wore the cutest leggings imaginable—white with lace
inserts at the outer ankles. A man came up to me and said, “I’m so sorry. How
did you hurt your legs?”
“I
didn’t.”
He
bent over and looked down. “Oh, I see. Those are your shoes.”
He
was serious.
What
was there to say?
Then
there was a guy who sat in the corner talking to my husband. Since the people
at the party were total strangers and interrupting conversations was becoming
tiresome, I decided to enter the little group of my husband and his friend. I
can’t remember what I asked the man, but I’ll never forget his answer: “Do you
need to go to the head?”
I
could have done better maybe. Fifty years ago I would have hidden in the
restroom and cried. Twenty-five years ago I would have laughed. Last weekend I
reminded myself that others don’t have the power to upset me. My husband calls
me a rebellious individual, but the truth is I am who I am. And we had a wonderful time.
Saturday, April 13, 2019
Download at no cost
On April 13 and 14, 20019, Southeast Media Productions, the publisher of DEEP FROM THE HEART, is giving away the book. Click here to get it. Deep from the Heart
A Dangerous Love Ava Molino will defy your expectations of what a church pastor is like. |
Sunday, March 24, 2019
More about Deep from the Heart
Praises For
Deep from the Heart
“Woven with grace and sensitivity, Mary Lou Cheatham takes us on a journey with Ava Molino as she leaves the comfort of her hometown in Mississippi and travels to Texas to pastor a small-town church. The poignant plot will grip your heart from the beginning as she reaches out to the downtrodden and draws them to the church and to Christ. It was a blessing to see how the town changed from the inside out.”
—Patricia Bradley
Author, Justice Delivered, releasing April 5, 2019
Memphis Cold Case Novels
—Patricia Bradley
Author, Justice Delivered, releasing April 5, 2019
Memphis Cold Case Novels
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“The theme of the book is to follow your heart and always be open about your feelings.”
—Nancy Hutson
Retired Assistant Professor of English
Louisiana State University, Shreveport
—Nancy Hutson
Retired Assistant Professor of English
Louisiana State University, Shreveport
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“This lovely romance was entertaining from the first word to the last! In this insightful story, one cannot help but notice the unfortunate similarities to the widespread unrest we have seen in the current arena. Deep from the Heart illustrates the relationship between two perceptive, discerning individuals who are unfairly affected by interventions beyond their control. Mary Lou Cheatham offers a poignant, timely description of how easily lives can be destroyed in the wake of misguided agendas. As always, reading Mary's work was a sublime pleasure!”
—Jodi Hockinson
Author, Between Two Worlds
Southeast Media Productions
—Jodi Hockinson
Author, Between Two Worlds
Southeast Media Productions
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"A modern-day Father Brown or Father Tim from Mitford in the body of a female Methodist Hispanic minister. Inspiring read full of humor, love, and acceptance.
"Quotes I loved:
'I'd have to find my safe places where God would breathe new life.'
'They need to hear about him in the words they understand.'"
—Marguerite Gray
Author, Bring Me Near
Revolutionary Faith Books
'I'd have to find my safe places where God would breathe new life.'
'They need to hear about him in the words they understand.'"
—Marguerite Gray
Author, Bring Me Near
Revolutionary Faith Books
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"Filled with complex characters and heart-tugging conflict, Deep from the Heart reveals the struggles embedded in ministry...and love. This story tenderly reminds us that a life surrendered to God doesn’t just change a church...it can change a whole community."
—Tara Johnson
Author, Engraved on the Heart
Where Dandelions Bloom
—Tara Johnson
Author, Engraved on the Heart
Where Dandelions Bloom
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Other Books by
Mary Lou Cheatham
Other Books by
The Covington Chronicles Series
Secret Promise
The Courtship of Miss Loretta Larson
The Dream Bucket
Manuela Blayne: A Life Apart
Travelers in Painted Wagons: On Cohay Creek
(Co-Author: Sarah Walker Gorrell)
House of Seven
Secret Promise
The Courtship of Miss Loretta Larson
The Dream Bucket
Manuela Blayne: A Life Apart
Travelers in Painted Wagons: On Cohay Creek
(Co-Author: Sarah Walker Gorrell)
House of Seven
Christian Biblical Fiction
Abi of Cyrene
Abi of Cyrene
Contemporary Inspirational Novel
As Doves Fly in the Wind
As Doves Fly in the Wind
Daily Devotional
Do You Know How God Loves You?
Do You Know How God Loves You?
Children’s Books
with Christie Marie Underwood
Bubba, the Firedog
Brother Star, Sister Moon
Seth, the Shepherd Boy
with Christie Marie Underwood
Bubba, the Firedog
Brother Star, Sister Moon
Seth, the Shepherd Boy
Saturday, March 23, 2019
An Excerpt from Deep from the Heart
Excerpt. © Reprinted by permission. All rights reserved.
Of the three motels in town, I selected the one where I had travel points.
A few minutes before six o’clock, I drove to Taco Grande. Jack stood leaning against his fancy red pickup. I needed to like him, needed to treat everybody in the church with respect. The smirk on his upturned pink lips—a repulsive shade of pink—revolted me. I hoped he never got an urge to kiss me. Why did I have such a thought? I wasn’t planning to kiss anybody, such as anyone attending Grace and Peace Church, especially someone on a church committee.
His cold blue eyes stared at me from underneath his dirt-stained cowboy hat. With his head leaning forward and his eyes boring into me, he sent a seeking look that reminded me of a trapped rat. I wasn’t sure what his expression meant, but I didn’t like the looks of his face. After seeing the place he selected for me to live, I considered him trouble, but I’d try to be cool, not showing him I was wary.
He walked toward me.
Quick as a bullet, I opened my car door to step out before he’d try to offer to help me. I felt a little flustered as my eyes caught the hair exposed through the open buttons of his blue chambray cowboy shirt. I hoped he didn’t notice; I wished I hadn’t.
He licked his lips. “Good to see you again, Reverend Ava.”
“Yes.” Did he expect me to offer my hand? I didn’t have to.
At the hostess podium, a woman hid her smiling mouth behind a menu. Her eyes met mine. “How many?”
“Two, please.”
Was the hostess amused because Jack had a female accompanying him to dinner?
He ordered first. “The chicken enchilada combination plate for eight dollars: fried rice, beans, enchilada, taco, and guacamole.”
I placed my order. “I’d like the same thing except for beef.”
“That will be way too much food for you.” Jack looked askance at me.
I glared at him. He needed to stay out of my business. Jack Perry, a bizarre combination, repulsed me with his insulting comments while he looked me over with hungry eyes.
I’d have to guard all my remarks, but I’d make sure he did certain things to help me get started at Grace and Peace. He would fulfill his obligations.
“Where are you going to stay tonight?” Jack tilted his head toward me.
“Oh, I’m not sure.” Placing my napkin on my lap, I dried my sweaty palms. Lying was not my nature.
His widening eyes and slack mouth conveyed disbelief.
My shoulders tightened. With my napkin, I wiped sweat beads from my forehead.
The waitress approached our table and refilled our glasses. “Something wrong?”
The man’s evil eyes sent a negative message to my spirit.
“No, everything is fine.” I was telling the truth as far as she was concerned—nothing was wrong with the service or the food.
She shifted her weight. “Anything else?”
“A to-go box when you come back this way.” Having lost my appetite, I sat holding a chip while I stared at nothing.
I’d considered spending the night in the church office again, but the parishioners might not have been impressed. I couldn’t spend too much money on motel rooms though. I’d stay two nights—Friday because the house wasn’t ready and Saturday because I’d need to be ready to meet the congregation for the first time Sunday. Tomorrow I’d secure the doors. How does one replace door locks? Or only the insides of locks? Until someone helped me, I could use a screwdriver well enough to put up latches.
Also I needed a new mop.
I was glad I made my reservation at the motel before coming to eat.
“Ava, you aren’t listening.” Jack spoke through a full mouth.
“Oh, I’m sorry. There are so many concerns I have to sort through. What did you say?”
“I haven’t had time to go by the church to pick up a check from Sylvia.”
“I see. When—”
He was playing gotcha. “Since you need your money so bad, we can ride over there after dinner and pick it up. She left it on her desk.”
After we finished, I paid for my dinner, most of which I carried in a Styrofoam box. Since he tipped fifty cents, I laid three dollars on the table. Outside, he opened the passenger door of his truck. “Come take a ride in my new pickup.”
My belly felt rock hard. “I—I’ll just follow you.”
The location of the church was only two blocks from Taco Grande. He led the way, and I pulled up behind his shiny red truck.
He approached me. “Let’s go. I’ll show you around.”
My new job wasn’t getting off to a smooth start. “Jack, I’m too tired. I’ll wait here in the car for you.”
“Lock your doors. You never know what could happen.” He winked at me and turned crisply toward the first-floor door behind the plump shrub on the corner.
When he returned, he handed me the check through my open window. “Are you all right?”
“I’m fine.”
“You need somewhere to stay.”
“It’s okay.” I closed my window, started my car, put it in reverse. I jerked away so fast my tires squealed.
He sprinted to his pickup and hopped in.
I managed to go a block before he caught up with me. I saw him in my rearview mirror.
What to do? Wal-Mart. I’d go buy a few supplies, such as door latches and a screwdriver. Bleach, window cleaner, a mop, a broom, rags.
I selected a hammer, an assortment of screwdrivers, and three door latches. Soon my cart was full.
Around the corner of each aisle, I looked for Jack. Once I thought I saw him, but when the man turned, he was some other cowboy. Most men in Flat Rock wore cowboy hats.
If I hadn’t been rattled, I would have appreciated the incredible beauty of the lingering sunset when I stepped out the door. I walked as fast to my SUV as I could without running and calling attention to myself. I slung my purchases into the back.
Was that his red pickup behind me?
“Siri, give me directions to Redemption Canyon.”
Thank God, I filled up my gas tank this afternoon.
Following the directions blaring from my cell phone, I drove north a few miles on Highway 84, wound through El Conchos, then crossed the railroad track toward Redemption Canyon. In three or four minutes, I felt a thrill as the road plunged to the bottom of Yellow House Canyon. The sun shone into my window with a spray of blazing colors.
The surprising turns of the landscape fascinated me, but this was not a time for studying geography.
I coaxed my SUV to climb out of the canyon. This was one of the moments I appreciated my dad. The owner of a car parts house, he made sure my car was in perfect running order. I didn’t feel afraid to challenge my sweet little car because I knew Daddy always sent me off in a well-maintained vehicle.
I turned toward the sunset. My rearview mirror revealed the red truck maintaining the distance of five car lengths behind me.
Tight throat and mouth dry with a bitter taste, my wrists pulsating, I shivered at the thought of Jack following me. Beads of perspiration popped out until I was drenched.
In a few seconds, my cell phone directed me to turn left. Would the turn provide an opportunity for me to lose Jack?
The whirl to the left almost caused the wheels of my SUV to leave the pavement. I held my breath. My rearview mirror showed Jack still behind me.
Friday, March 22, 2019
Deep from the Heart...I like Ava, the narrator.
Although I’ve never known anyone quite like Ava Molino, she has become real to me. I like
her. She isn’t perfect, but if she were, we’d find her disgusting.
She needs encouragement, and I’m hooked on her situation…cheering for her. I’ve been obsessed with recording her story exactly as she told it.
Where did this character come from? Mississippi, but where in the ethereal region that authors invade to recruit characters did Ava exist? She’s nothing like me. Maybe she’s like some who will read about her.
At times she’s a needy millennial. Her district superintendent, her immediate supervisor, dreads seeing her walk through his office door. On the occasions when she doesn’t feel needy, she’s capable of managing challenging situations.
When we first meet her, she says she wants romance in her life. She has several blocks to romance. She’s moving to a town where there won’t be many eligible men. If she meets any men in the town of Flat Rock, I don’t expect her to start relationships with them. A guy named Ray claims her attention, and she seems to have no interest in anyone else. She sets her sights on him. Although she doesn’t pursue him when she arrives in town, she welcomes his attention.
I wondered whether she had a relationship in Mississippi before she left. Evidently not…. Now she’s looking for a serious commitment. But with such a cute guy?
At first, she’s a bit of a mess. Imagine a minister with chipped red fingernail polish. Her clothes don’t fit right, and she has spilled something on her best dress.
As I said, I like her. She’s qualified intellectually and she’s an accomplished musician. She has a good starting point. No matter how small or large her church is, she must feel overwhelmed as she leaves her pleasant existence and moves to an unfamiliar, potentially hostile place. Let’s hope things go well for her, but how can they?
A Bumper Crop--Multiple Book Releases
Writing fiction is exciting, especially exciting now. Bunches of friends have book releases, and some more have contracts for new books. It's like a snowball rolling down a mountain or a tumbleweed gathering circumference as it blows about.
It's being released April 2, 2019. I blogged about it a few days ago.
The words she wrote in her blog, Kathy's Voice, touched my heart. Here's what she said:
Mary was one of my first critique partners and has stuck with me for five years. She’s patiently given me many helpful suggestions about the writing craft, and she’s honest and gentle when telling me I need to add things which are missing from my stories.
Also, I love reading her work, from historical to contemporary. I appreciate Mary so much and highly recommend you check out all her books.
Here’s what she says about her newest book.
DEEP FROM THE HEART, releasing March 25 by Mary Lou Cheatham, takes us on a journey of romance and suspense.
Ava Molino, a millennial, travels to places where she finds her mission of reaching the hurting and the dying—the troubled souls in a crumbling west Texas town. It’s a romantic thriller about a Methodist minister who leaves the security of pastoring churches near her friends and dear ones in Mississippi to revive a dying church. She also hopes to fall in love.
She rescues others. Who’ll rescue her?
DEEP FROM THE HEART can be pre-ordered in Kindle form now and delivered on March 25. Also close to that time, Southeast Media Productions will release the paperback form. A few days later the recorded version will be available on Amazon.com and Audible.com for purchase.
Mary Lou Cheatham’s heartfelt sympathy for the downtrodden has served as an inspiration for many of her novels, including The Dream Bucket.
Go to http://maryloucheatham.com to read more about DEEP FROM THE HEART.
My dear friend Kathy McKinsey has a new book, ALL MY TEARS.
Now she's blogging about DEEP FROM THE HEART.
The words she wrote in her blog, Kathy's Voice, touched my heart. Here's what she said:
Deep From The Heart by Mary Lou Cheatham
Mary was one of my first critique partners and has stuck with me for five years. She’s patiently given me many helpful suggestions about the writing craft, and she’s honest and gentle when telling me I need to add things which are missing from my stories.
Also, I love reading her work, from historical to contemporary. I appreciate Mary so much and highly recommend you check out all her books.
Here’s what she says about her newest book.
A Dangerous Love
DEEP FROM THE HEART, releasing March 25 by Mary Lou Cheatham, takes us on a journey of romance and suspense.
Ava Molino, a millennial, travels to places where she finds her mission of reaching the hurting and the dying—the troubled souls in a crumbling west Texas town. It’s a romantic thriller about a Methodist minister who leaves the security of pastoring churches near her friends and dear ones in Mississippi to revive a dying church. She also hopes to fall in love.
She rescues others. Who’ll rescue her?
DEEP FROM THE HEART can be pre-ordered in Kindle form now and delivered on March 25. Also close to that time, Southeast Media Productions will release the paperback form. A few days later the recorded version will be available on Amazon.com and Audible.com for purchase.
Mary Lou Cheatham’s heartfelt sympathy for the downtrodden has served as an inspiration for many of her novels, including The Dream Bucket.
Go to http://maryloucheatham.com to read more about DEEP FROM THE HEART.
Sunday, March 17, 2019
DEEP FROM THE HEART released on March 25, 2019
It’s exhilarating to have a new book to publish.
On March 25, DEEP FROM THE HEART will be released. The novel of what happened to Ava
Molino is a love story spiced with the fear brought on by adventures gone wrong. It’s a romantic thriller with a balance of romance and thriller. If it were a movie, it would seem to have equal parts of these two story elements, but when written on the printed page, the romantic scenes, including both time of the ones together and the longing of Ava to be with her love, take longer to tell than the action scenes.DEEP FROM THE HEART is the story of a journey taken by a Methodist minister who leaves her secure spot in Mississippi, where she has friends and a dear family to travel deep into the heart of Texas. She’s looking for love, but she doesn’t really expect to find it as she travels to a desolate little town that at first appears to be dying.
One reason I enjoyed writing this book is that it gave me an opportunity for you and me to delve into the lifestyle of the downtrodden.
DEEP FROM THE HEART can be pre-ordered in Kindle form now and delivered on March 25. Also close to that time, Southeast Media Productions will release the paperback form. A few days later the recorded version will be available on Amazon.com and Audible.com for purchase. I.t would be good to pre-order it to guarantee you don't forget to obtain a copy.
Monday, March 11, 2019
Kathy McKinsey's New Book Release
Kathy is a dear friend and critique partner. We've never met in person, but we know each other well. Her writing has inspired me for years. I've watched her grow
as a writer. I don't think it is possible for Kathy to grow as a person, because she has lived the life of a mature, happy, joyful, Christian woman as long as I've known her. She radiates a kind of beauty that amazes me.
Here's the release she sent me for this blog:
as a writer. I don't think it is possible for Kathy to grow as a person, because she has lived the life of a mature, happy, joyful, Christian woman as long as I've known her. She radiates a kind of beauty that amazes me.
All My Tears
It's time to pre-order it on Amazon in Kindle form. Here's the link: All My Tears
Here's the release she sent me for this blog:
ALL MY TEARS, releasing April 2, is a collection of five novellas about women fighting battles within themselves. Fear; addiction; regret; anger at God and other people; anger at ourselves; inability to accept forgiveness; loneliness; depression.
All of us have faced some of these, or other enemies, inside ourselves. The main characters in my book are people like any of us, fighting these villains in ordinary daily life.
What I hope to show through these real-life battles is the true hope and grace from God we can find to be healed.
Meet women whom I pray you will like and who may remind you of yourself or people you know. Share their stories with their friends and families, through struggle and joy, fun and stress, falling and getting up again.
The stories in my book are not autobiographical. However, I have dealt with depression for many years. I know what it means to not believe God can forgive me. I have faced the struggles to keep a marriage and a family going strong. And I know how God’s grace can fight, and win, these battles.
Psalm 56:8: “You keep track of all my sorrows. You have collected all my tears in your bottle. You have recorded each one in your book.”
Tuesday, March 05, 2019
Tuesday, February 12, 2019
"Shocking and Scandalous"--"Pure Evil"
Quotes from Washington Post:
Russell Moore, president of the Ethics & Religious Liberty Commission of the Southern Baptist Convention wrote: “'Nothing is worse than the use of the name of Jesus to prey on the vulnerable, or to use the name of Jesus to cover up such crimes.'”
In an interview on NPR, Russell Moore calls the sexual abuse crisis in the Southern Baptist Church “shocking and scandalous.” He explains that the church is supposed to be the safest place in the world, but predators often hide there. He labeled the problem “a crisis of credibility.” He compares the abuse crisis in the Baptist Church to the one in the Catholic Church.
Twenty years is a long time, but not long enough for a victim of abuse, no matter the nature of the insult to someone else's body, to forget the hurt. What about forty years?
Quoted from the product page of “Liza Yates Too":
“Forty years is a long time.” Liza hears those words on television from a man in a leadership position. He implies that after forty years a woman has had enough time to recover emotionally from unwanted sexual advances when she was a teenager--a child. Forty years after being abused, something incredible happened in Liza's life. Now it's been sixty years. What can she do to help her cope?
“Liza Yates Too” is the story of a pastor abusing, frightening, offending a young girl--someone I know well.
Get this short story here: “Liza Yates Too” or listen to the poignant reading by Misty Mikes at “Liza Yates Too” Audible version
“20 years, 700 victims”
“The Houston Chronicle and the San Antonio Express-News reported that nearly 400 Southern Baptist church leaders and volunteers have faced sexual misconduct allegations in the past two decades. As many as 700 victims — some as young as 3 — were sexually abused, some raped and molested repeatedly, according to the report.”Russell Moore, president of the Ethics & Religious Liberty Commission of the Southern Baptist Convention wrote: “'Nothing is worse than the use of the name of Jesus to prey on the vulnerable, or to use the name of Jesus to cover up such crimes.'”
In an interview on NPR, Russell Moore calls the sexual abuse crisis in the Southern Baptist Church “shocking and scandalous.” He explains that the church is supposed to be the safest place in the world, but predators often hide there. He labeled the problem “a crisis of credibility.” He compares the abuse crisis in the Baptist Church to the one in the Catholic Church.
“20 years, 700 victims
Seven hundred? The attacks are like roaches on the kitchen floor. If seven hundred show up, how many more hide in the cabinets? Please excuse my crude analogy, but this subject sends shivers up and down my arms as my trembling fingers rush to find the keys to express my outrage.Twenty years is a long time, but not long enough for a victim of abuse, no matter the nature of the insult to someone else's body, to forget the hurt. What about forty years?
Quoted from the product page of “Liza Yates Too":
“Forty years is a long time.” Liza hears those words on television from a man in a leadership position. He implies that after forty years a woman has had enough time to recover emotionally from unwanted sexual advances when she was a teenager--a child. Forty years after being abused, something incredible happened in Liza's life. Now it's been sixty years. What can she do to help her cope?
“Liza Yates Too” is the story of a pastor abusing, frightening, offending a young girl--someone I know well.
Get this short story here: “Liza Yates Too” or listen to the poignant reading by Misty Mikes at “Liza Yates Too” Audible version
Monday, January 07, 2019
Interview with My New Friend, Sarah Rexford
Mary Lou Cheatham
Jerry Jenkins, one of the bestselling authors ever, takes time to teach the authors who sign up for his courses. He gets to know us personally and encourages us to communicate with one another.
Recently while visiting with fellow authors in Jerry's Facebook group where he helps his students, I made friends with Sarah Rexford. Her enthusiasm for her writing projects, both fiction and nonfiction, and concern for her fellow writers impressed me. I asked her to grant me an interview so you can become acquainted with this emerging writer.
Please enjoy her fresh approach to writing she shows in this interview.
When did you start writing?
I started writing in third grade actually. But I started seriously writing as a sophomore in high school when I challenged myself to write a book just to see if I could do it. I did, and assumed that was the end of it.
It wasn’t until my junior year of college I even considered writing as a profession. So to all the high schoolers out there, don’t freak out if you don’t know what you want to do with your life yet.
Why do you want to write?
At heart I’m a communicator and writing enables me to communicate what’s most important most effectively. I love art and creativity and showing what I see in the world in different ways, so I love writing fiction.
But I also love concisely sharing those same thoughts. Nonfiction is where I do that more pointedly. It’s one thing to “show” aspects of culture or life in a story (and for me it takes longer to do). It’s another to arrange those same thoughts into a three hundred word, engaging blog post. Both are difficult animals, and I love the challenge.
Please share with us some more about your fiction and nonfiction projects.
Several months ago I finished my first main fiction, which I’m super excited about. It was the first book I wrote on deadline so that was a huge mental accomplishment just to show myself I can do it. My agent is pitching it to houses pretty much as we speak so I’m in the waiting game on that now. It’s really nice to have the hard work behind me and be happy with the manuscript.
My nonfiction is on identity in Jesus Christ. I got the idea for that at one of the many colleges I attended (that’s a different story.) but didn’t write the full version of it until the industry became interested in it.
I’m really passionate about this topic and actually created multiple events because of the book. I had a band, brought in some touring/recording friends, etc. It was pretty mind-blowing because it was supposed to be a one-time event and turned into multiple. We’re pitching the book right now and getting a lot of great feedback, it’s mostly just the whole platform thing I’m working on now.
Tell us a little about your background. Where did you grow up?
I pretty much grew up on the water and you’ll easily find that theme in my writing. People say write what you know so I’ve kinda just run with that idea. I also grew up traveling quite a bit with my family and it opened up my worldview and has impacted my writing for sure. I love tying in something I learned in say, Peru, but putting it in a setting I know more personally.
That same idea goes with different people I had opportunity to meet. Having conversations with individuals in all different types of fields has grown me so much and it’s also really helpful to have those people to go to if I need to know more about a specific career for my writing.
How have you developed your craft as a writer?
Three main areas come to mind.
First, like any profession, it takes practice to get good at something. But there’s a difference between practicing alone and practicing in the pack. A lot of people don’t show their writing or are afraid to. Totally get that, but it doesn’t help with growth. I prefer to just put it out there. I’ll listen to feedback 100% because I want to know what catches a reader or what draws them in.
But at the same time, I’m the author of what I’m writing and I’m going to write what I believe is best. If a bunch of people say the same thing I’ll definitely consider changing it, but I want the writing to be mine, not a conglomeration of a bunch of people’s ideas. Feedback grows me like crazy.
Second, I’ve been intentional about not letting my age or lack of experience hold me back. I go to a lot of writing conferences with people who are decades older than me. The first one I went to I just sat down with as many professionals as I could. I took about thirty to forty-five seconds to tell them where I was at, then asked for advice on next steps. The trick is to do what they say. They know what they’re talking about.
The other thing I’ve done a lot is just ask for things. Ask for that meeting. Ask for that endorsement. Ask someone to beta read my book. Yeah, it’s scary. Yeah, I don’t feel confident every time. But if you’re polite and personable, the worst thing that can happen is you get a no. And “no” is one step closer to yes.
Developing my craft has come from comparing myself to the professionals. If I want to be one I know I need to act like one. It’s come from walking into meetings with people high up in the industry and being bold enough to say I don’t know what I’m doing – help. It’s come from taking feedback professionally and not personally. I have so far to go but that’s what I love about this industry – there’s always room to grow.
What are your plans?
I plan to publish a book, but getting there isn’t as direct of an answer. Right now I’m getting published in smaller ways as I wait for a publisher to pick up one of my books. Any publication I can put on my proposals is a win.
As I wait it’s really important to be proactive. That proactivity comes in a lot of different ways, but keeping the end goal in mind helps me continue working towards the goal of publication, not just a mirage of “success.”
The best way to keep up with my current plans is my website or Instagram, for sure.
When and where do you write?
It depends on the time of day and my schedule. If I’m at work and get two minutes before the next person walks in the door I might write on my phone. When I was in college that looked like pulling my computer out in the fifteen-minute turnover time between classes. Or more often a coffee shop. I’ll pretty much use any minute, especially if I’m on a deadline. I wrote a lot of my first book at the beach. That’s a little dangerous, but I made it to the end.
Once I was on a short flight and pulled my computer out before we taxied. The flight attendant asked me to put it away until we reached altitude. So as soon as we did I pulled it out again. The flight was so short she came back and asked me to put it away until we landed.
Ironically, I was sitting next to a businessman reading a new release on his IPad. He told me I should type on an IPad so I could actually get something done. But he asked what I was working on and I found out his daughter was an author. You never know who you’ll connect with.
I spent the rest of the flight mentally editing the book he was reading. There was a typo on the first page and I couldn’t edit my own work so why not practice on a published author’s? Use every chance.
What are some books you have enjoyed lately?
I try to read a lot but that never looks like a specific genre or author. I just started a book by Frederick Douglass and if we’re talking about writing, just the introduction has blown my mind on his expertise and ingenuity as a writer.
Someone recommended Covey’s The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People earlier last year and that was hugely transformational. I wish I’d had to read that in college.
Martin Luther’s biography was a monster to get through but so good. He changed the world by writing so I figured it was a necessity to read about his life.
I read fiction too though. It’s cool seeing how different authors use and break writing rules.
Writing is always evolving, especially as social media continues to impact attention and even just the format of writing. It’s a fun business and one I’m humbled to be part of.
Thank you, Sarah. I look forward to reading your books.
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